Friday, November 20, 2009

My "boyfriend" just hung up the phone on me AGAIN! He is so mean to me and he always yells at me.?

But because he's really hot and a lot of girls want him, I feel lucky to have him with me. He acts like he's doing me a favor by standing next to me. I look exactly like my avatar. I have long dark hair down my back, light eyes and tan skin. I'm 5'5 and I weigh 135 and have large breasts and a small waist. I know I can attract other guys but I still put up with his crap. Half the time he acts like he can't stand me or he'll tell me he can get any girl he wants and he doesn't need me around for sh*t. Every time I decide to walk away, I stop because I know I'll never feel those tight arms holding me again or stare into his gorgeous face.


Sometimes he's nice, he will take me shopping and out to dinner, though he doesn't have a job so I'm not sure how he makes money. He'll tell me he thinks I'm beautiful, but then not touch me at all. All I do is obsess about him and my happiness right now lies on whether he called or is being nice or wants to see me.


I just want to die right now.

My "boyfriend" just hung up the phone on me AGAIN! He is so mean to me and he always yells at me.?
Ok first of all you should never be with a guy that thinks and acts like he is doing you a favor by being with you. Ok he's cute and maybe he could get anyone he wants but thats great see because that just means some other girl would be willing to deal with his shitty attitude besides you. I recomend that you give him away like put a free sign on him and stand him on the road free for the taking. You will be so much happier without him and stress free! Trust me. You are probably a beautiful girl and there is someone out there that will treat you like a princess probably someone that has had an eye on you for quiet sometime and you just don't know it. I can totally relate this happened to me!
Reply:um you should have left him a long time ago. You are making yourself seem weak. Report It

Reply:leave him
Reply:You should dump that loser and find someone who's worth your time. You don't need a jerk like that.
Reply:Dump him!!!I will say it one more time DUMP HIM,move on to someone who respect you and love you.
Reply:There are plenty of fishes in the sea
Reply:feel more self worth and dump the guy
Reply:find somebody else
Reply:don't even joke about it! Leave him. That's kinda shallow, ur kinda stuck-up too.
Reply:So what's the question?
Reply:dump the bastard he doesnt deserve you . stop stressing if he really cared hed be more aware of youre discomfort and try to make you feel more loved.
Reply:get rid of him
Reply:Gag! Lose that weight. Who needs it? What an arrogant so and sol He will never love you he loves himself too much. Get a guy who really clicks with you and makes you feel good. To hell with his looks. He will get old and wrinkled.
Reply:Sweetie, you deserve better than that. A leopard never changes his spots. He will never change, and he doesn't respect you for who you are. HE is the one who is lucky having you stand by him!!
Reply:okay...i've totally been in this situation...you need to get away from him and stop putting up with his crap...believe me he's not worth it. actually i'm just getting out of that situation and yeah, it's hard, but you'll find someone better who deserves you. i know it's hard to say goodbye when you're looking into those gorgeous eyes, but it has to be done. best of luck. :)
Reply:Your boyfriend is being a jerk. If he's that confident let him go get any girl that he wants. Because not many women will put up with his crap like you have. You don't need him and you can do better. From what you've said your a beautiful woman and you could do much much better then anything that your boyfriend seems to think is nice. Yes, I know that having him hold you feels great but how much work is it to get him to hold you like that? Its not worth it. He's not worth it. And trust me it will feel so much better when its someone who really treats you the right way.
Reply:try not to act like a ditz and quit hanging on him. Blow him off a few times, if you have the guts.
Reply:So you are only dating him because he is good looking and to make all the other girls jealous??? Wow.





Hes' an a@@, leave him, and let the other girls find out how "lucky" someone has to be to get with him, since lucky means getting treated like a dimwitted doormat.





You will find someone else who is even more attractive to you but is beautiful on the inside too. That jerk isnt worth it.
Reply:if he treats u that way he's not worth being with. ditch him
Reply:You should dump him if he treats your so poorly.


You deserve a guy who actually appreciates you,


not some jerk who thinks he is God's gift to women.


With your good looks, you should have no


trouble finding a decent b/f to replace him.
Reply:you are going though the pain i went trew heres my advice dump his @$$ because there are better ppl out in that world for u it will


be fine some guy will come along twice as hot and nice so then u can rub it in the other guys face
Reply:Do you realize you are in an Abusive relationship? have more self respect! It sounds like to me he is really insecure deep down. And no job and he has money? go figure. Alot of Red flags to me....................RUN..................
Reply:leave him....


if he can yell at u now, think of what he can do to you when u merried.....


It is better to be hurt now rather than to be hurt later...
Reply:You are hot. He should be proud to have somebody as great as you. Leave him and find somebody that will respect you. He doesn't deserve you.
Reply:ditch him
Reply:and you are with him because? you deserve better hun. are the "tight arms holding you" or "his gorgeous face" really worth your misery? if you aren't happy, get out. it seems like you know this already, you just need the courage to follow through with it.
Reply:I think you need to figure out why do you need him? No one is worth loosing your own identity and confidence. You need to ensure that no matter what...how hot someone is, or how nice they are at times.....Your needs comes first, otherwise how do you think he will take you seriously when you allow him to step all over you.... Dump him, and move on...and find your happiness with yourself first and from someone that appreciate you.
Reply:yer bf seems like a total jerk that thinks to highly of himself...he knos hes hot and thinks he can treat u like s*** because u are so lucky to hav such a hot bf...dump him!
Reply:Sweetie you have to look at the magic question. That is simply "Do I I like being treated this way?" If the answer to this question is yes then perfect you've got exactly what you want. It the answer is no, then you have a problem, and that is being too superficial about what guy you're with. The one thing a man is going to do is play on your intelligence, and that helps him build his self esteem. If he can tell you how beautiful you are and on the other hand tell you how beautiful he is in the same breath he has a self esteem issue and the only way to make himself feel better he tries to build his control level in your relationship (or what ever you want to call it).


This is what you do GO AWAY!!! Change you number leave your house don’t talk to the people he talks to for at least a month. In that time search for yourself and do what you enjoy also focus on how he put you down and made you feel bad about yourself, then build on that. Find someone new and if he does even one thing like the other guy bring it to his attention and make sure that it doesn’t happen again. When you finally return to your normal state flaunt someone new (even if you don’t like him) and make sure ol' boy knows that your are very happy and satisfied with yourself. Be a woman, this means let boys go, leave them alone!!! Don’t waist your time saying 'I've got a boyfriend' and find a man that deserves to be your MAN!!


Stop committing yourself to the "popular one" and commit to yourself first, then you'll see you don’t need that in your life anyway.

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